Dress For A New Vibe~Self-Love Style

Every day, I choose how I want to feel. I create a look, I set a vibe.  I dress for me.  Some may stare and wonder why I’m overdressed or where I’m going…what my job is.  Well, I’m a Transformation Coach, Self-Love Goddess, and Mojo Maven.

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I dress the part as I’m a Multidimensional Transformation Life Coach who gives women permission to fully love and embrace all aspects of their Goddess-SELF.  I dress and treat myself like I’m a Goddess!  I believe every woman is.  If I had my way, I’d wave my magic wand and instantly all women would love themselves and see their beauty and brilliance.  I model this as best I can daily.  I preach and teach it as i walk my talk.  I am the mom of five and technically could live in yoga pants..or lately LulaRoe leggings!  i actually have two different colored ones with diamonds on them cause I love bling.  They are so soft…like butter.  And my booty looks good in them.  For the bootylicious leggings, hop into these groups by three of my friends.

Jill Walsh’s group here:

Jessica Bechtold here:

Kathleen A. Brown here:

 

I actually have soooooooooooooooo much fun with makeup, sunglasses, jewelry, and clothes.  I love different fabrics and how colors make me feel.  I’ll even put a song on to get ready and raise ,my vibe.  When I was a kid I loved going to church because I got to dress fancy.  Look at me lookin’ all cray cray!

I used to have so much fun dressing up as a kid.  As an adult, I felt I had to conform in order to fit in.  Up until age 34 did I really start becoming my own Goddess.  For five years I have been transforming and becoming me fully.  I share my truth through my words and pictures to inspire, uplift, and empower other women who are where I was.  Lifting up others, cheering them on,and coaching people brings me immense joy!  I believe in living your purpose and passion in the most fun way possible.  Do you still play like a kid or have you stopped having fun!  I dare you to buy fun leggings with a crazy print from LulaRoe ladies I listed above.  I CANNOT wait for their Christmas ones to come out!  I love a theme!  Also, join my Facebook group about Self-Love where I’m doing an “I DARE YOU” challenge every day this week around style and self-love.

Join here: 

Also, did you ever want to chat with me?  YOU CAN!  How fun will that be?  if you want to check out this FREE offer I have. It will expire in 7 days,  so just hop onto my Facebook page and get on my calendar….here:

 

Love you all!!!!!!
xx,
Jenny G.  Perry

Sexpot With Stretch Marks

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Hello cuties! Going with a thankful Thursday vibe here even though my two youngest sons are driving each other bonkers at the end of summer here. (I have five kiddos from 2 1/2 to 19.) I wanted to spread some positivity to all you mommies. If you lost your mojo, need a pick-me-up today or just like to read uplifting stuff, click below for a copy of my ebook, Sexpot With Stretch Marks~Fierce Musings Along the Journey to Self-Love with Sass.” Have a fabulous day!

http://jennygperry.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Book-PDF.pdf

Love, Jenny
xx

I Would Have Been Burned At The Stake

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As I was driving to my middle son’s field trip yesterday, I had this song on repeat.  I was looking at the trees with so much love.  Truly, I can tap into to this pulse of the Universe.  This wild and ancient knowing of our true power and that of the Universe.  I’m so connected to nature.  It is a deep feeling I can’t explain really.  But as I was feeling so alive and in love with life, letting the music caress my soul, grateful I’m an entrepreneur and have the freedom to plan my life, day, and vibe.  I choose joy.  Is everything perfect in my life?  No.  But it’s pretty damn wonderful.

No makeup, just pure sunscreen and bug spray, full of happiness with my middle boy.  His trip was to Cold Spring Village in Cape May, NJ.  I have been there two other times, each on a field trip with my older two kids.  I forget everything each time, so it was new to me.  First stop was a home built in 1820.  I looked on the website and I think it’s the  Spicer-Leaming house.  We learned so much.  Like blow your mind learning.  Boys were married at 16, girls were married at 13.  Their parents choose who you would marry.  Men died at 45, women died at 35.  They often died at childbirth and disease was killing everyone off due to the uncleanliness and spread of germs. I think she said if you had 8 kids, 5 of them would die.  They didn’t name their babies until they were 9-12 months old.  Breaks my heart thinking of how much sadness that they had to deal with.  You had no freedom.  Women couldn’t even drink at the tavern.  LOL!  That was a dealbreaker for me.  I would have truly been burned at the stake.  I’m too rebellious by nature and ain’t no man gonna boss me around.  The moms and teachers were all saying how we would not have fit in then.  These women are independent and speak their minds.  My kind of gals.  Oh…and when you died, your family put your dead body on the kitchen table and put flowers around you so you didn’t stink as much.  The rotting body on the table caused many of the health problems obviously.

This guy was acting like he was a teacher back in the 1800’s. I stood outside to enjoy the sunshine with my friend, Jill. We could hear his sternness and then the kids laughed. He punished them by making one kid wear a dunce cap and another one by standing on a brick. It was to shame them. I can see how shame was so ingrained in that culture and the next two generations. Everyone was not allowed to feel. It was pretend, keep in line, be reserved. Wild was not allowed. Again, I would have been burned at the stake. I would have let my wild slip out at some point. I imagine there was no room for desire, so they had a lot of anger inside at not being allowed to be in love and make love to who they wanted. How many gay people died a regretful life having never truly loved back then?  I think about feelings, versus isn’t the carpenter exhibit cool. Although he did inspire Finn to want to be a carpenter now…for this week at least.

I got the feels for a second in the printing press seeing old newspapers and as a writer, thinking of how much freedom is created through writing. Not that I think they could write what whatever they wanted of course.  The first sign, how true is the top line!  The second part is hilarious.  The coffee sign cracked me up too.  Female writers always seemed so saucy and daring back in the day and of course…still.

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The kids had a great day and so did I.  Hanging out with my girl, Jill, who was in our group needs to be done more often.  Duh…we talked about Prince.  I’m going to call her Princess from now on.  She’s the bees’ knees.  I got to give hugs and kisses to my friend. Christine’s daughter, Waverly.  I adore her and Christine.  I got to also hug my friend, Jaime, who I have not seen in ages.  Also, my friend Tobi who I feel like no time has passed since the field trip last year.  I was honored to get smiles and a few words from my friends Stacey, Jenny, Steffanie and a few other chicas.  Finn’s teacher, Mrs. Naplacic, is so real and funny.  That seems to be a theme around me.  I know so many fierce and fabulous women.  It’s so cool.

I had a newfound gratitude and fresh perspective on my life and how much freedom I have.  The day ended so beautifully with me putting on my bikini and heading to the beach with my hubby, kids, and meeting my fabulous photographer friend, Violet. She did my most recent photoshoot and she is not only a joy to work with, but super talented.  Just look at my website.

I took a picture of myself, her, the beach, and then my phone died and was off the grid for a few hours.  It was so freeing.  But I wish I could have shown you all the glorious blues that lit up my children’s eyes as the sun set.  It was a goosebump happy I’ll never forget.  Finn came down after his playdate on the playground.  I actually felt like a millionaire already.  I felt the riches.  I am so rich.  Whoa on the blessings for sure.  i could not have asked for more in that moment.

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My beautiful blue bracelet I bought for $3.15 cents on teh field trip. I thought I just wanted to get the blue for throat chakra work as I expand my audience. But it reminds of me blue skies. To keep my head in the clouds and focused on my dreams.

 

My friend and photographer, Violet Karyn. Click blow the picture for her website.

I tried to capture her beauty and how her mirrored glasses were reflecting the blues of the sky and ocean.  She looked so dreamy!  But she clearly is the photographer.  We talked God, problems, fears, had some laughs, and prayed together.  That’s how I roll.   The link to her website is below.

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Here’s the badass tee I’m wearing.

My shirts which would definitely gotten me burned.
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Never be afraid of your wild.  It’s part of your power.  As women, it is what connects us to that force when we give birth.  You’re magic.  Be unapologetic true to you.  Have a blessed day, sweet cheeks!

P.S.  Ended the day with Skinnygirl Spicy Margaritas while watching Real Housewives and There Goes The Motherhood…cause you know…balance.  😉  A few of the moms from #TGTM were tweeting back to me so it was really fun.  They are some great moms.  Life is good.  Always look for the good.

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Why I’m Like a Kindergartner

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Last week, I went on a class trip to the zoo with my yougest son’s kindergarten class. The teacher, Mrs. Riley, gave me a group of four kids, my son Seamus, another boy Andrew, and two girls, Holly, and Sarah. You can see them in the picture here with my hubby and youngest daughter, Dylan. (Thank God I had a helper!) The little girls rushed over to me and gushed, “I love your sunglasses. I love your lipstick. I love your love and your heart too. (one of my tats) I love your ring.” They were lovin’ me! They wanted to hold my hand. They are just fully themselves, uncensored and not holding back at all. I so love that! I always compliment people just like they did and I genuinely mean it. I think every woman is beautiful and I always tell them that.

I can TOTALLY come across like a Kindergartener!  I don’t hold back on love for sure. I can make friends in an instance. Like real friends, no BS, no chit chat…but like meaty…although I don’t eat meat. Let’s go with juice. I love juicy friendships that nourish my soul and/or they crack me the hell up. Heart and humor are essential. Having a heart-to-heart’s is one of my favorite things in the world. It makes me feel more connected to them, myself, and the Divine. I love sharing my truths right off the bat and don’t want to wait ten years to get to know someone for real. Life’s too short for that. I don’t need more acquaintances.  I do soul sisters.  I think it’s obvious I’m super affectionate and that hugs are a requirement.

I also react with the same enthusiasm as a Kindergartner…to the animals at the zoo and life in general. Just ask my mom, sister, and daughter. Every time we go to New York City to see a Broadway show, it’s like a spiritual experience for me. I get so giddy. Of course I get like that in Disney too because, well it’s HappyWorld!  I see all the details and get distracted by cool things but I am very present when I am focused on someone. If I’m with a client, I am fully present. I sit on comfy chair in my bedroom and my three littles take turns snuggling with me and telling me about whatever they want. The other night I became the Life coach to Seamus, his teddy bear, Buzz LightYear, and Rapper the pig (which is actually a cow stuffed animal).  He asked me if there was anything he could help me with. He was so genuine and I felt his whole heart in those words. His eyes were so wise and I saw him growing up. Last night, he asked me to sing him a song. I do not sing well…AT ALL. So I sang “You are my Sunshine.” He said, “You can do it. You’re did a good job,” and other sweet things as he was mentoring me in that moment. i love magical moments like that. I have a lot of them, just like Kindergartner.

Yesterday, I got into an argument with one of my kids and then my hubby pointed out where I was wrong and I acted like a brat when I felt judged. But like a kindergartner, I got over it in a minute. Literally, I went to the bathroom and was over it completely withing three minutes max. I spoke with my hubby and the kid I argued with. I said I was sorry and we said what would be good for us both to work on. I say sorry easily and do not need to be right all the time. I wear my heart on my sleeve and you always know how I feel. I am totally a kindergartener!  Shout to my Kindergarten teach who I loved, Miss Bono, who is actually a Facebook friend of mine.

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Top left:  First day of Kindergarten.  Top right:  Already posing…airplane or cheerleader arms?  Bottom left:  Me smiling of course Bottom right:  Rockin’ a red shirt and pigtails.

::NEW MOON:: March 8th

Simple as a pimple astro info:

Today is the New Moon. It’s also an Eclipse. Epic energy today. New beginnings are magnified with the Eclipse energy. Write down your intentions. Feel into what you really, really want. You get to create. Practice the feeling of what you desire. Set it free and let it go into the wind and beyond the ether. The Universe supports intention and attention. Focus on purpose.

What do you want? Don’t be afraid to declare it!

I would like to support your intention with this New Moon. It may be a word/theme of one or more, a state or feeling, a tangible goal, or am “I AM” power statement.

Examples:
Manifestations, Clarity, Abundance, Mojo
I usher in a deeper connection to Spirit and more inner peace.
I call in five more Immersion Gold clients and I will change their lives for the epic better.
I AM a confident, successful, passionate, and prosperous goddess.
I intend to fire up my purpose to the next level.

What is yours? (Remember you are worthy and it is possible.)
Comment below. xoxo

The F word…and Captain Obvious post of the day.

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Captain Obvious post of the day…I’m a little bitchy without wine…

Well also, no sugar, dairy, or gluten. Lots of great awareness of my anger today. Not wanting to take responsibility for how I feel. Kids are home from school and did not want to run errands. My husband bribed them. I was salty. Story in my mind…”I can’t have what I want.” HUGE! BIGGIE! This is a limiting belief many have. Life coaches are still people and are working on their own stuff. I dropped the story and took my sweet ass out in the freezing cold and boom…shit was shifted.

No lie, I dreamed about bread, cheese, and money and the night before I dreamt about the liquor store. NO LIE! Cheers to 2/12. (I did a 30 Day challenge for myself on 1/11)

********If we were to have a snowstorm, I decree the no wine to be null and void. I ain’t that crazy! 😉

Now for the F word…

What do you need help with?
What are you afraid to look at within yourself?
Why do you feel stuck?
Are you willing to ask for help and be vulnerable to put your shit out there? Are you ready to shift it?

The difference in “shit” and “shift” is one letter. F
Do you secretly say to yourself…Fuck yeah I’m ready to change! I’m fucking sick of this! What the fuck is wrong with me!?!? Let us look at some other F words to add.

What if we looked at adding fun?
What about focus?
What about your fierce?
Are you in the flow?
Do you know how fabulous you are?

Do you know you have it within yourself? Yes, you do! Whether it is weight, business, prosperity, relationships…whatever shit you are sick of…I can help. Let’s shift this together. You don’t have to do it alone.

Let’s do fun, focus, fierce, flow, and fabulous you, Foxy! You got this!